Thursday 28 June 2018

Trust yourself


Hey guys,



This is the post is all about the tragedy of life.


The person who does nothing gets nothing. This is how the circle works. What you reap is what you sow.


 One with talent doubt their abilities, on the other hand average person does not worry about their knowledge (knowledge could be less) but they learn it confidently!



That is why you see people with more talent sometimes fail to get the best things and the average one cracks it because their power of being positive and less doubtful about their capabilities.



 self-doubt kills the best opportunities.

Keep your head held high and don't let the crown fall. Grab every opportunity coming your way.


Monday 25 June 2018

Keep Dreaming

Hey guys,



I have spent days and have sleepless nights been thinking about my dreams. I have made targets/ goals to meet my goals. It has always been like this. Making goals achieving them, thanking god for helping.



"What will happen when I fail to meet one"?



what if ...



This "what if." does not let us sleep. It's like a sudden rush of depression sweeping over. We don't understand how to take off that layer.

 We don't know what scares us the most of all, knowing that we can not follow those dreams now Or living without one.

What if the dreams give up on us or the chances of achieving it becomes zero.



Would my failure be forever now?

What will people say about me?

Have I become the live joke for people now?



This kind of questions will keep running in our head to drive us crazy. What do you need to do is calm down for a while and think for the alternative and what else you can possibly do, to meet those dreams. Make a list of ideas and work on it.

The problem is not forever. The problem stays like a problem until we think of it as one. 

Relax and let your hard work speak.

Tell yourself you got this! Yes, you did!

Saturday 23 June 2018

Being a Woman!

I wrote it earlier also, but unfortunately, it got deleted. Couldn't recover it. 

And I hate it because I wrote like a giant article on it. 

Well, here it goes again!

Being a woman, sometimes, makes me feel like, am I even important? This kind of feeling comes when so much is going on in your life and you just can't think why the hell I am going through this. Is it because I am a woman and that's why treated as a less important person in the human race? Well, the answer is, we as a woman are not treated as a serious matter. People think we are born to be used in their stupid jokes which is used when they are incapable of doing something or during their failure when they cry. As we cry our hearts out when something goes wrong and we do everything in best possible way. So, no thanks!

Huh. I am not just making up anything. I will tell you guys an incident which happened a few months back.

My friends and I we were volunteering for the function which took place in February. One of the judges called a guy "a woman" because he was talking a lot. I was looking at his face. The other guys around started laughing so hard as if it were a joke. 

It offended the guy and he said sir, please don't call me "a woman".

In layman terms, we can say the whole idea behind that not so funny joke was biased/stereotyped. 

The guy was standing next to me and with that sad face he looked at me and asked, "Why did he call me a woman?"

I replied, "So what if he called you a woman? He said, "No! he shouldn't be calling me that". 

People sometimes just develop qualitatively not quantitatively. Their brain is just as dumb as their tongue. Woman is different than man in just biological way. In humans only, the size of a woman is nearly the same. In animals or fishes the size of female is larger than that of male.  Treating woman as less important person and using them like a joke to laugh at are the people who pulls out the bitch in me who is ever ready to fight like a woman!  But the vicious circle of stupidity goes on. I think it satisfies their identity of treating themselves as Superior. Well, congratulations you still look stupid! People used to call me a tom-boy and guess what! I am not, I am a lady with all the strength and Independence. I can do what ever I want to. If I am doing something which is not according to the gender roles made by the society that does not make me a man or Tom boy. Because women can do it in their way. 

(P.S- the best way possible!)

If this article is offending most of the negative minds out there. GUESS WHAT! 

I AM A WOMAN.

Thank you!