Being a woman!

To all the women out there,

Being a woman, sometimes, makes me feel like, am I even important? This kind of feeling comes when so much is going on in your life and you just can't think why the hell I am going through this. Is it because I am a woman and that's why treated as a less important person in the human race? Well, the answer is, we as a woman are not treated as a serious matter. People think we are born to be used in their stupid jokes which is used when they are incapable of doing something or during their failure when they cry. As we cry our hearts out when something goes wrong and we do everything in best possible way. So, no thanks!

Huh. I am not just making up anything. I will tell you guys an incident which happened a few months back.

My friends and I we were volunteering for the function which took place in February. One of the judges called a guy "a woman" because he was talking a lot. I was looking at his face. The other guys around started laughing so hard as if it were a joke.

It offended the guy and he said sir, please don't call me "a woman".

In layman terms, we can say the whole idea behind that not so funny joke was biased/stereotyped.

The guy was standing next to me and with that sad face he looked at me and asked, "Why did he call me a woman?"

I replied, "So what if he called you a woman? He said, "No! he shouldn't be calling me that".

People sometimes just develop qualitatively not quantitatively. Their brain is just as dumb as their tongue. Woman is different than man in just biological way. In humans only, the size of a woman is nearly the same. In animals or fishes the size of female is larger than that of male.  Treating woman as less important person and using them like a joke to laugh at are the people who pulls out the bitch in me who is ever ready to fight like a woman!  But the vicious circle of stupidity goes on. I think it satisfies their identity of treating themselves as Superior. Well, congratulations you still look stupid! People used to call me a tom-boy and guess what! I am not, I am a lady with all the strength and Independence. I can do what ever I want to. If I am doing something which is not according to the gender roles made by the society that does not make me a man or Tom boy. Because women can do it in their way.

(P.S- the best way possible!)

If this article is offending most of the negative minds out there. GUESS WHAT!

I AM A WOMAN.

Thank you!

What is the best life advice you would give?

My philosophy of life is that the only person who should be responsible for your success or failure , should be you. When regretting something what you did earlier or appreciating that someone should be you.

I don't want to blame others for the decisions that I have made, the real learning in life is by doing it or by learning from others experience. Which might save you from making the same mistake.

Don't give people the right to control you, other than your parents. Sometimes you got to think about the real problem and for how much time it is going to stay and it's impact.

Always note down the positive points and negative point together of the situation and notice which side is Winning. You will get all your answers.Life is hard after all. Think wisely.

The only person knows how hard the situation is or how easy is it, the person in it.Others problem is just a problem not a misery untill it's yours.

Everyone is fighting a battle you know nothing about.

Be kind. Always.

How do you know if you're on love?

•When you think about them all the time, the good thing that happened to you and you just can't wait to tell them the detailed story.

•When you think what they would be doing at the very moment.

•When you are listing to songs and imagining being with them.

•When you thank God for meeting that person.

•When you want to be with them.

•When you don't utter a word while sitting together and not get bored.

•When all the things you did earlier is in your head and you don't want to sleep you thing, that you might miss out the moment.

•The first thing which comes to your mind is their call or their texts they sent you, you go through them just to live the moment again.

•When you close your eyes and only thing you want to see is their face.

•You tend to smile even before seeing the whole text.

•You get the feeling of euphoria, you get the feeling as if you are addicted to them.

•Day and night you can talk about them without even getting tired.

I think that's enough!