Glimpse

Hey people,


I didn't write anything in this month so chose this day -the last day of the year to get it done.
This year was full of surprises, happiness, sadness, adulthood and entered into the world of employment-stress of work etc etc.
This year has been great for me a few things which were supposed to happen, last or last to last year but happened this year in 2018.
    Your happiness could be related to somebody's happiness, that is what I have experienced.

Felt sad for people who passed away so early when they had started to do well in their life.
Which made me think life is unpredictable, it could change any time we should cherish every moment. If you make mistakes that should not stop you from proceeding further, learning from mistakes and moving forward is what life is all about.


I am still in the process of getting to the point where I can say "I have learned a lot now I can relax", that stage is far for now.
     Life keeps on going so are the experiences and learning. We must make ourselves ready to adapt the changes in any field. At first it's tough but then it becomes your warm up.
I want to do so well in life, when I die I could say that "I have done everything, now I can die peacefully". 🙏🏻

I want to write for myself too where I can feel motivated after reading it and could proceed further in life and never stop.🎖️

Little things.

Hello guys,

           I have understood so many things in these years that a person could also stay happy in small things too.
A child who lives on streets and is homeless, does not have  proper clothes to cover his body and is barefooted.
If he could smile even in difficult conditions then you  can at least try .
We have forgotten our childhood, how we used to avoid the problem and if we think about the problem we had, they were related to solve the game conflicts, about choosing teams.
A small child can solve problem with his little brain too and he does not take much stress, he says what he feels like, does what he wants to.
Open your palms and release all the stress.

We as humans waste our time thinking about things which can't be fixed instead leaving it alone and focusing on main things.
 We should invest our time in living happily and giving society back what it has given you.

Life is not always the same for every one it keeps on changing, we should go with the flow and should explore the beauty around us.

Life feels simple when you have the perspective which is positive. Let small things make you happy and big things happier.

Life is happy

Hello people,


                 Does the world feel sad when you are sad?!

It is very difficult for us to describe the life when we are sad. When we are happy there are some words which perfectly describe a situation. So, I can say that life has been tough for all of us precisely for me too.
I don't want to give it a credit because now I have so many good things happening in my life and I don't want to focus on the negative side, which really affected me and broke me in tears.

I have died like everyday waiting for that moment where I can say

                                 "I Live for this"

 life gives you so many worst experiences and lessons just to make you realise, how to be happy when gloomy days are over. Instead of blaming the person we should blame the situation.

      The most important thing that I have realised is to attain a peace of mind and not physical environment, that's the secondary thing because physical environment could be changed but to feel the change, we should be in the state of mind to understand what is happening and how it could be changed.


I want to thank every single person whom I've met and who stayed with me in the times of need. I will always remember the responses that I have got and will try to be there for the people who stood by me.

Even if you say "I understand you" means a lot to the person who is in need or even if you stay silent and just listen to them.
 This is just like a therapy where we share our inner or deepest thoughts which were bouncing inside your heads to pop out some day.

In the end I would like to say is to stay strong and be happy because ultimately you will get what you dreamt of it could be anything happiness, money, things but don't just kill your excitement for the person who does not deserve it. Live, keep shining, keep smiling because you are worth it.

#shinebright♥️💖 

Save yourself for someone special

Hey guys,
   
         This is very important for a person to know, their value in someone's life. We face different situations like
Sometimes we feel the person is not reciprocating the same way they should. Which directly or indirectly affects us in different terms.
Or
 If the other person is making extra efforts to make you or the situation positive, gives you positive Vibes.

What would you do in one of the situations as mentioned above it is quite obvious we will stick to the person who who makes extra efforts and gives us positive vibes.

        I believe in the philosophy- which says "Action speaks louder than words." People say thousand things daily and they don't do as they say. People should teach what they preach.

You should give yourself time to see what is going around you and should know how to analyze the situation. If the person is making genuine efforts just you have your attention, you should never let them go.
And if you are with the person who makes you feel extra & worthless it's time for you to see the truth and move on and wait for the best one to come. It is just like the quote syas "Price is what you pay and value is what you get." If you are not getting what you deserve you should look for someone else who appreciates your presence because there are thousands and billions of people on this planet and I totally believe you will find that someone special with those qualities.

You cannot expect these things from stupid people. Just save your time, effort, energy and your love for someone who deserve it.
Save yourself for someone special! ❤️

#savingmyselfforsomeonespecial❤️

Things to do

Hey people,
   
     
We have always dreamt of dying, at some point of our lives. You must have made a list of things in mind, what you would love to do before dying. This is what I think if this happens, that is what I would be doing, if thing happens I will react this way.

Things I want to do, before dying;
😂(P.S- I am not mentally stressed or depressed)

1. I want to travel the whole world. (So cliché, ikr)

2. I want to live in a tree house for months, also in       smallest house. That is what we used to do        when we were small

3. I would like to speak the brutal truth for a day, even if it hurts everybody around.

4. Would like to taste all the candies all around the world.

5. I would want to have a life where I just sit, eat, exercise and get paid for it.😂 (Suggest me, some kind of jobs)

6. Want to visit places and would like to skip going home afterwards.

7. Would like to call all my FRIENDS and party.

8. World tour with friends.

9. Want to be a Police woman for a day.

10. See the northern lights.

11. Ride a helicopter.

12. Scuba Dive the Great Barrier Reef.

13. Go on a road trip.

14. Raise a child.

15. Camping.

16. Sleep in a Castle.

17. Climb a Mountain.

18. Get Tattoos all over my body.

19. Ride a Roller Coaster.

20. Become a Millionaire.

21.  Fall in Love.

22. Learn to Skateboard.

23. Learn Sign Language.

24. Be a Judge for a day.

25. Fly like a bird and shit on people I hate the most.

26. Want to see myself from others perspective and make them think, I am the Best human on Earth that has ever existed.😂

P.S- keeping few things Private. 🤘🏻

#

You're worth it

Hello people,


          There are various situations in which people either slay by saying the good things or by staying quiet. There are numerous comes, it could be positive or negative. You never know, how the other person is articulating the meaning out of a situation.

Sometimes we regret saying something or we regret we didn't say anything. People react in anger, they say things that they shouldn't have said. When we don't utter a word, we become our critic.

We have different ways of finding fault in others or we can say, we all are clichéd, the way we do things, as if we were born to find faults. Life is little crazy. Let god decide, how to f*ck your life in his style.🤘🏻😂🤘🏻
 It all depends on the way, we take it as a lesson or one of the ways to be successful person.

Your work is to shine, without dimming others' light. Don't be that light that blinds!
Be your own motivator, inspire to aspire, pull people out of their miseries and put a smile on their faces. Climb on a ladder of success not on people's morals.

#peaceout!
#you'reworthit

Don't let them walk all over you!

 Hey people,

          This is for the  people who think they are the most Superior human ever existed, you are just too dumb to realize, how stupid you look when you open your mouth. You can just criticize every little thing around you but you forget to look at the mirror the one and only dumbest creature that has ever existed is you.

     You might not realise how you suppress the other person's existence. You are the most disgusting specie on this planet, even on the parallel universe you are still the most disgusting stupid ass Bicth!
You are just so coward that you only choose people, who prefer to stay silent than spilling out bull shit, like you do. You don't even know how bad you look even from outside, it takes courage to handle all the bullshit, especially when it comes out from your mouth instead of your ass! Your ass must be jealous.

       I hate this feeling that people choose to walk all over the feelings, genuine nature, simplicity and kindness. You must know how bad it feels when somebody looks down at you. If you can't handle flaws of a person, then stay thousand miles away from them.

The only thing you deserve in life is nothing!

I am not sorry for all the words because you deserve them all! "I'd Like To Apologize To Absolutely Nobody.🙏🏻

#SorryNotSorry

Reverse psychology

Hello people,


           You must have heard the sentence which is often used by the people, that is "don't cross the line". We as a human we just do the opposite, if we're asked not to do something and we just do it because we want to explore the situation or the consequences of it.



   Well, as an imaginative specie we can imagine things in a best way possible and we are curious about the product of the process. We're being taught about everything and anything ever existed but have you ever had a thought of not doing something?

If you're ''not to peek!"



We'll make sure we get the best vision to see, what we're asked not to watch. 😂 We call that human nature.

Let me give one more example;

When somebody is entering and you tap on your friend's shoulder and tell them that somebody say cute is coming towards us and you ask them "not to look at them directly" but what your friend do is totally opposite.

       In the heated argument some people say not to punch not to punch, what did you do? 😂 You did punch, right!

 Our brain can not imagine the words like "not", "don't", "can't". That is why people have started using the reverse psychology knowing the nature of humans, it is the best policy ever adopted!



Enjoy your day!

#peaceout

Uncertain things!

Hello people,

     Uncertainty, doubt, dubiety, skepticism, suspicion, mistrust mean lack of sureness about someone or something. uncertainty may range from a falling short of certainty to an almost complete lack of conviction or knowledge especially about an outcome or result. This is what Merriam-Webster says about uncertainty.
       
 There are things we should not worry about i.e., future, situations, conditions, your bank balance 😂 etc. These things are uncertain you can not define the exact amount of them like how good or bad it would be in the next moment. We should remember that we live only once (only god knows though!) we should not waste our time worrying about things we can not control, instead we should enjoy every moment of our lives, loving people around and giving the society that it deserves (only good things.😂)

As the picture says being Sad is a waste of time, instead of wasting our time thinking; what bad has happened to you. We should serve people in need and thank God for giving us the opportunity to face the bad phase and coming out of it smiling.



"A person can acquire knowledge by experiencing the worst situations and not by eating almonds."



Consider yourself fortunate enough for the things you have, some people don't even have the basic things. Donate a little, to the people in need.


People of Kerala are having a bad time of their lives and they need your help as they have lost their houses, the basic need of a human being.

Please! Donate some amount or any thing you can give.

You can log on to "Paytm" and donate some amount of money to the minister of Kerala!
Sharing the link -
https://paytm.com/helpinghand/kerala-cm-s-distress-relief-fund

Let people think

Hey people,


    Have you ever experienced a few moments where you feel that the person you are talking to has misunderstood you. Well, congratulations! you are alive. This is life where you say something, people get something else then they have the point of fighting.

This issue is quite common because people will always judge you, according to their mood and the situation. I have recently joined somewhere and I barely know anyone there so, I do don't talk much. A lady was wearing a dress and I asked her "you wear it like this? What about the other way?!" I am definitely sure she got offended. 🙈 I was actually curious, to know the other ways of wearing that dress.
It's like you can't control the situation because you can not control other's point of view and their way of thinking.

The only thing you can do is "leave it up to them!" 😂 Or ignore it because you can not invest your time explaining the other person; what you said, how you said it, why did you do something and so on.
You didn't take birth just to explain people around you and to prove that you are right.

feel awesome

Hey guys,

       Awesome is a word which is divided into "awe" and "some". Awe means a feeling of reverential respect mixed with fear or wonder and some means an unspecified amount.

•Be excited for the new innings and for future because you don't know what is going to happen. So, smile and be happy now, be happy enough to forget all your sorrows.

It's okay to feel sad for sometime because only after a gloomy day you could enjoy the sunny day.

•Give people suggestions, to solve the problem when asked. 

Do not force people to follow what you have suggested because it's their choice and up to them whether they want to follow or not. 

•Exercise is the best way to feel happy and healthy. Exercise keeps the body functioning smooth and keeps us away from anxiety.

• Smile that is the easy gesture and seems simple enough; If you just smile at someone, it will make them feel more at ease. 

•Respect others point of view; be flexible enough to accept other's point of view and

It's time for you to leave the table, when respect is no longer served.

 To make others respect you, the first thing you should do is respect yourself.

• Take less tension; that is quite hard for people (including me) to do so. It comes naturally though. Relax a little and let things happen on their own.

 Did you smile today?

Be Awesome! Smile because why not?! 😁

How to be a real and true friend

Good afternoon guys,


       This is the best topic which we should know i.e., "how to be a real and true friend!"

1.) Most of us actually need to know the real meaning of being a true friend. People come and go like the waves in the ocean. But true friends stick around whether you like it or not. Just like an octopus on your face or a jellyfish on your leg. (Indeed!)

   2.) If you don't respect your friends' decision and keep questioning about it, you might lose that Friend. It is the for most, or we can say basic rule of a friendship, trust your friend.

     3.) Let your actions do the talking. Your friends want you to act and stick to what you said earlier. You can't keep your words; your friend might feel hesitation, in sharing their problems with you.

(Let your friends know what you are hiding for what reason!)

4.) Staying connected is what your friend might need, you should always support them no matter what. They need your support in bad situations and to tackle the problems because two is always better than One! Right?

5.) If you need to find who is your friend in need; just close your eyes and think; who will help you in the time of need. That's the one!
(I don't know about you guys but when I think, I have a list of friends, guess I am lucky!)

6.) A True friend does not need to keep a track on the lists of mistakes you have made; nobody is perfect right! A person's imperfection makes him live and interesting.
Forgive and forget is the best thing to do.

   7.) A true friend is always ready to invest; even in your dumb things. Just kidding!

Have a happy day!

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F.R.I.E.N.D.S

Hey guys, Happy friendship day!



       Life is incomplete without family and stupid friends. It is the best life when you have friends as your family.

On this special occasion I want to thank my crazy friends for sticking by. I don't know how to thank you guys but this is my way of expression.



This life could have been more difficult without you guys so this is for each one of you who stood by my in my thick and thin. Some people have a few true friends but I think I am just lucky enough to have many friends and everyone is so special in their own way.

I love you all so much, I might have told you that in one or the other way.


I have made many interesting, goofy, cracked friends which sometimes make me think "what did I do to get you guys?"

Some say they can't live without air, water i.e., true but I can not think of life without my friends. You have seen me growing and changing. I never felt lonely and never had this feeling of getting in relationship with someone because I have you.

[P.S- you all are responsible for my "forever single" title 😂 ]

 You all are like a mirror to me when I see myself I see you!



Happy friendship day to everyone! ♥️💫

I love you to the moon and back. 💕

Taste of truth

Hey guys,

This is I guess the most wanted topic in the human history. Hurting others is easier than making them happy.

People disappoint us, for not responding the way they should be responding, not being honest and by telling lies.
There is a thin line between the truth and a lie. Truth hurts more than the lies and it is easier to lie than confessing the truth. This is why I guess people lie. They also do so because it makes them more accepting. Or maybe they are trapped in their own web of Lies. The only difference between the truth and the lie is that the truth is solely independent and it does not need the support to stand up against all odds but lie does.
I think the person who lies is the one who is Hollow from inside Out. They most of the time hurt people who are close to them.

If you don't know how does the truth taste like you should stop making others stupid because in the end you will get to know you were the only stupid around. There are certain ways to hide a truth but there are a million of reasons to showcase it. If you are enjoying your lies now guess what it is going to change in a jiffy and you will not even get a chance to regret it.
The only thing that is going to happen is you will end up losing people you love the most.

When you taste the truth the only think you are going to feel is the freedom from the chains of Lies, the Independence which stopped you trapped you earlier. Well, life gives chances to restart. Now is the time. You might regret it in future for not starting it earlier.

Now is the time to change, CHANGE FOR GOOD.

People will be forgiven,
Truth will be revealed
Dark Sky would clear
Birds would fly
Your worth would be understood
As the time passes by!

"Let Karma Hustle!"

Spark in the Dark

Hey guys,

Think of the colour black the only thing that comes to our mind is dark image. But when we see its positive side the word black has all the colours mixed in it and could be said as the father of all colours.

For Some people black is not a happy colour but logically it has all the colours in it.

Darkness is when there's no light and on the other hand the light could only be seen when there is darkness. Likewise, a person's capabilities are just like the colours which are embedded underneath his skin.

Even excess light could blind us. Don't be afraid of the dark experiences in life.



Only know you have been high When you're feeling low!
(P.S- love this song!)



Falling and Rising are complementary. The person who fails often is more likely to be happy after they succeed in life because they have the experience of failing. I am not saying fail first then only you could succeed.

As an inventor, Edison made 1,000 unsuccessful attempts at inventing the light bulb. When a reporter asked, "How did it feel to fail 1,000 times?"

Edison replied, "I've not failed 1000 times but I, now, know 1000 ways how not to make a bulb."




•You cannot see the stars in the sunlight•

Life has levels

Hey guys,


This is the post about life, there are levels in life. We are either above the average line or below it.The average line is not related to money or something but with the happiness and sadness.

Life is happening and interesting when you have a friend or friends. Because you can share your sorrows and happiness with them. If you have to check your success, you check your bank balance. No! You look at your friends you have made in the process of becoming a successful person.

If you don't have friends that does not mean you are a loser it means you are still in the running to become successful woman/man. Friends make your life worth living. Life has hurdles one has to cross all by jumping over them and crossing them safely. We as a Human could only feel the level of happiness only when we go through rough time. You will never know how happy you are untill you realize how sad you were.

When you are sad, you should know this is not permanent and will fade away soon the right time is going to come. You just have to wait till the right time is going to come. Keep walking on the track your destination is near. Life is like a circle you are getting, what you gave earlier. Like the quote says;

"What Goes Around Comes Around."

We should invest our time in good deads rather than wasting on crying for uncontrollable things. Pray for what you want, may be god is going to Grant it some day.


Have a happy day!

Health is Wealth

Hey guys,



it is quite common to fall sick there are various reasons. One of them is being lazy and avoiding physical activities. The chance has also increased because the we're addicted to technology social media, games on phone etc.



The health of a person depends on various factors such as  sunlight, fresh air, food, physical activities.



•A person must involve himself/herself into various physical activities and should do exercise on daily basis to stay fit and healthy. Proper blood circulation is a fundamental feature of good wellness.



   •As we have heard many times that "what we eat is what we are"

we should eat healthy so that our body could fight the diseases. The loss of health is a loss of all happiness.



•The fresh air in the morning helps our body to do the functioning properly. It also helps our brain to think without taking stress.



Advantages of doing exercises, walking/running in fresh air/ eating healthy:



1. Keeps the person fit and sane.
2. Smooth blood circulation.
3. Keeps a person fresh.
4. The person stays Energetic whole day.
5. less prone to diseases.
6. Less stressed.
7. Positive outlook.

Diseases caused by using technology:

•Psychological Issues
1. Distractions
2. Expectation of instant gratification
3. Cognitive losses

•Social Issues
1. Deficits in social skills
2. Sense of isolation
3. depression

•Health Issues
1. Vision problems
2. Hearing loss
3. Neck strain
4. Back pain

Hope you guys have great day!
☮️

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Calm down a little!

Hey guys,



You must have heard this word 'calm down', it is used in many types of sentences;



When somebody is angry: Calm down! Ritu.



When somebody is excited: Calm down! Prerna.



When somebody is overwhelmed: Calm down! Dimple, nothing bad is going to happen.



There are so many things which keep us sane and sometimes, make us insane. I guess people close to our hearts do it all the time. Sometimes, people are like dark clouds; it's fine when they are gone. And sometimes people are like a blessing even if they are not around but it feels good to have them in life. Well, there are phases in life in which we want a friend to be around or beside us just to make us feel that we are not alone.(P.S- a friend works for me!) A jealous friend is even better.😂







I don't know it is common or not but the people who are closest to our hearts leave us. Either life gives them the reason to leave or they just are one. I don't think its a curse to have someone special in life, or we are too prone to sadness.



Sometimes I think life is:



"Don't get excited otherwise I'll ruin it."



Even before getting excited it is like calm down, let it happen first. Then when it happens, the happiness is for just a span. We either celebrate it for days or weeks but when it comes to sadness it's like forever! Why can't we be sad just for days or for weeks? I guess it is human nature, we celebrate sadness more than the happiness. Even I don't know I am happy or sad but trying to keep a point with a straight face.

😑

Trust yourself

Hey guys,



This is the post is all about the tragedy of life.


The person who does nothing gets nothing. This is how the circle works. What you reap is what you sow.


 One with talent doubt their abilities, on the other hand average person does not worry about their knowledge (knowledge could be less) but they learn it confidently!



That is why you see people with more talent sometimes fail to get the best things and the average one cracks it because their power of being positive and less doubtful about their capabilities.



 self-doubt kills the best opportunities.

Keep your head held high and don't let the crown fall. Grab every opportunity coming your way.

Keep Dreaming

Hey guys,

I have spent days and have sleepless nights been thinking about my dreams. I have made targets/ goals to meet my goals. It has always been like this. Making goals achieving them, thanking god for helping.

"What will happen when I fail to meet one"?

what if ...

This "what if." does not let us sleep. It's like a sudden rush of depression sweeping over. We don't understand how to take off that layer.

 We don't know what scares us the most of all, knowing that we can not follow those dreams now Or living without one.

What if the dreams give up on us or the chances of achieving it becomes zero.

Would my failure be forever now?

What will people say about me?

Have I become the live joke for people now?

This kind of questions will keep running in our head to drive us crazy. What do you need to do is calm down for a while and think for the alternative and what else you can possibly do, to meet those dreams. Make a list of ideas and work on it.

The problem is not forever. The problem stays like a problem until we think of it as one. 

Relax and let your hard work speak.

Tell yourself you got this! Yes, you did!

Being a Woman!

I wrote it earlier also, but unfortunately, it got deleted. Couldn't recover it. 

And I hate it because I wrote like a giant article on it. 

Well, here it goes again!

Being a woman, sometimes, makes me feel like, am I even important? This kind of feeling comes when so much is going on in your life and you just can't think why the hell I am going through this. Is it because I am a woman and that's why treated as a less important person in the human race? Well, the answer is, we as a woman are not treated as a serious matter. People think we are born to be used in their stupid jokes which is used when they are incapable of doing something or during their failure when they cry. As we cry our hearts out when something goes wrong and we do everything in best possible way. So, no thanks!

Huh. I am not just making up anything. I will tell you guys an incident which happened a few months back.

My friends and I we were volunteering for the function which took place in February. One of the judges called a guy "a woman" because he was talking a lot. I was looking at his face. The other guys around started laughing so hard as if it were a joke. 

It offended the guy and he said sir, please don't call me "a woman".

In layman terms, we can say the whole idea behind that not so funny joke was biased/stereotyped. 

The guy was standing next to me and with that sad face he looked at me and asked, "Why did he call me a woman?"

I replied, "So what if he called you a woman? He said, "No! he shouldn't be calling me that". 

People sometimes just develop qualitatively not quantitatively. Their brain is just as dumb as their tongue. Woman is different than man in just biological way. In humans only, the size of a woman is nearly the same. In animals or fishes the size of female is larger than that of male.  Treating woman as less important person and using them like a joke to laugh at are the people who pulls out the bitch in me who is ever ready to fight like a woman!  But the vicious circle of stupidity goes on. I think it satisfies their identity of treating themselves as Superior. Well, congratulations you still look stupid! People used to call me a tom-boy and guess what! I am not, I am a lady with all the strength and Independence. I can do what ever I want to. If I am doing something which is not according to the gender roles made by the society that does not make me a man or Tom boy. Because women can do it in their way. 

(P.S- the best way possible!)

If this article is offending most of the negative minds out there. GUESS WHAT! 

I AM A WOMAN.

Thank you!