Stay healthy and safe!

Hey people!

 I hope you all are doing well in this pandemic.

I didn't get to write for the last one year I guess, it's because I was being too lazy. I don't know how many of you are reading my blogs and could relate to it but let me start today's blog!

Life has pretty much changed not just for me but for the rest of the people as well. Well, it has somehow changed for me a bit more because I got married!

After, when I got married then this corona thing happened. We've been trapped in our houses for like more than 7 months. We have gotten familiar with a little new terms like - lockdown, quarantine, Social distancing, COVID-19, work from home is not that unused word but we use it on daily basis now. Trips got cancelled, visits/ home visits got cancelled, meeting friends in a week or a month got cancelled. When your honeymoon gets cancelled, that really hurts (telling you with personal experience😒).

What did you do in this pandemic?

What I did was work, cook, exercise, travelled back and forth from my in-laws' house to my house. The trip continued...fell sick even after staying at home! Other people are wandering all around the places, eating street food, ordering food online and they are safe, lucky you!

People like me staying at home still get sick; catching viral instead of catching feelings! 😅What the hell! We have waited for this year like anything.

My expectations were like I'll like wander here and there, meet friends, visit new places with my husband and the sad reality is, this year, 2020, itself is sick. This corona time had made everybody so anxious, stressed, depressed since people lost jobs, friends, families every single day.

We should not lose hopes too soon. This year has shown us the worst, the best is yet to come. May be!🤔

 Keep disturbing your family and friends. They might not tell you how much they need you and your stupidity! 🤪Just kidding! 

Stay positive in this pandemic! Only talking about staying positive not COVID 19+. Stay safe and healthy.

Calm Down a little

Hey guys,



You must have heard this word 'calm down', it is used in many types of sentences;



When somebody is angry: Calm down! Ritu.



When somebody is excited: Calm down! Prerna.



When somebody is overwhelmed: Calm down! Dimple, nothing bad is going to happen.



There are so many things which keep us sane and sometimes, make us insane. I guess people close to our hearts do it all the time. Sometimes, people are like dark clouds; it's fine when they are gone. And sometimes people are like a blessing even if they are not around but it feels good to have them in life. Well, there are phases in life in which we want a friend to be around or beside us just to make us feel that we are not alone.(P.S- a friend works for me!) A jealous friend is even better.😂







I don't know it is common or not but the people who are closest to our hearts leave us. Either life gives them the reason to leave or they just are one. I don't think its a curse to have someone special in life, or we are too prone to sadness.



Sometimes I think life is:



"Don't get excited otherwise I'll ruin it."



Even before getting excited it is like calm down, let it happen first. Then when it happens, the happiness is for just a span. We either celebrate it for days or weeks but when it comes to sadness it's like forever! Why can't we be sad just for days or for weeks? I guess it is human nature, we celebrate sadness more than the happiness. Even I don't know I am happy or sad but trying to keep a point with a straight face.

😑

Being a woman!

To all the women out there,

Being a woman, sometimes, makes me feel like, am I even important? This kind of feeling comes when so much is going on in your life and you just can't think why the hell I am going through this. Is it because I am a woman and that's why treated as a less important person in the human race? Well, the answer is, we as a woman are not treated as a serious matter. People think we are born to be used in their stupid jokes which is used when they are incapable of doing something or during their failure when they cry. As we cry our hearts out when something goes wrong and we do everything in best possible way. So, no thanks!

Huh. I am not just making up anything. I will tell you guys an incident which happened a few months back.

My friends and I we were volunteering for the function which took place in February. One of the judges called a guy "a woman" because he was talking a lot. I was looking at his face. The other guys around started laughing so hard as if it were a joke.

It offended the guy and he said sir, please don't call me "a woman".

In layman terms, we can say the whole idea behind that not so funny joke was biased/stereotyped.

The guy was standing next to me and with that sad face he looked at me and asked, "Why did he call me a woman?"

I replied, "So what if he called you a woman? He said, "No! he shouldn't be calling me that".

People sometimes just develop qualitatively not quantitatively. Their brain is just as dumb as their tongue. Woman is different than man in just biological way. In humans only, the size of a woman is nearly the same. In animals or fishes the size of female is larger than that of male.  Treating woman as less important person and using them like a joke to laugh at are the people who pulls out the bitch in me who is ever ready to fight like a woman!  But the vicious circle of stupidity goes on. I think it satisfies their identity of treating themselves as Superior. Well, congratulations you still look stupid! People used to call me a tom-boy and guess what! I am not, I am a lady with all the strength and Independence. I can do what ever I want to. If I am doing something which is not according to the gender roles made by the society that does not make me a man or Tom boy. Because women can do it in their way.

(P.S- the best way possible!)

If this article is offending most of the negative minds out there. GUESS WHAT!

I AM A WOMAN.

Thank you!

What is the best life advice you would give?

My philosophy of life is that the only person who should be responsible for your success or failure , should be you. When regretting something what you did earlier or appreciating that someone should be you.

I don't want to blame others for the decisions that I have made, the real learning in life is by doing it or by learning from others experience. Which might save you from making the same mistake.

Don't give people the right to control you, other than your parents. Sometimes you got to think about the real problem and for how much time it is going to stay and it's impact.

Always note down the positive points and negative point together of the situation and notice which side is Winning. You will get all your answers.Life is hard after all. Think wisely.

The only person knows how hard the situation is or how easy is it, the person in it.Others problem is just a problem not a misery untill it's yours.

Everyone is fighting a battle you know nothing about.

Be kind. Always.

How do you know if you're on love?

•When you think about them all the time, the good thing that happened to you and you just can't wait to tell them the detailed story.

•When you think what they would be doing at the very moment.

•When you are listing to songs and imagining being with them.

•When you thank God for meeting that person.

•When you want to be with them.

•When you don't utter a word while sitting together and not get bored.

•When all the things you did earlier is in your head and you don't want to sleep you thing, that you might miss out the moment.

•The first thing which comes to your mind is their call or their texts they sent you, you go through them just to live the moment again.

•When you close your eyes and only thing you want to see is their face.

•You tend to smile even before seeing the whole text.

•You get the feeling of euphoria, you get the feeling as if you are addicted to them.

•Day and night you can talk about them without even getting tired.

I think that's enough!

Enough of Procrastination

It is quite normal to be lethargic most of the time, although I am not sure about “most of the time”.

We are engaged in one or the other things, so it is difficult for us to take our time, still it's not an impossible task. To get your work done you need either motivation or intrinsic motive. You should check on what things you are investing your time. Personally I spend my time on videos, audios and on social media and on fitness.

I have thought about how to spend my day, so I keep some track on activities. 

•To save your day and to engage yourself in something productive, you can make a to do list.

•Set an alarm.

•Stick notes.

•Reminders.

Take an example,

When you have working day next day, what you do is it set alarm to wake up on time and leave for work. The same thing goes for your life schedule too, setting alarm or reminders. It could make you aware of the things you are missing or have to do. 

If you want something so bad you should do the same thing, investing your time on something interesting or productive is always better than wasting it. I have always believed in making goals and achieving them, this is the only way one could progress in any field.

We have stipulated time to do what we want in life, we either postpone it for future or we do it there and then. 

• keeping this point in bullet•

 just to tell you that " some people have this habit of making fun of other's dreams. Don't worry about those retards because they will be the one sitting at the back seats and praising you for your achievements.

Progress means moving forward. Keep your inner fire burning and let it set the world on fire too. 🔥

#peace 

Face Care; Lipsticks and face cream

There are 3-4 lipsticks which I bought and very happy with them also so, I decided that I would be sharing it with you guys too. I pinned down the lipsticks which you must try.

1. This is one of the best lipsticks one could ever have if you want a decent colour

Nyx Matte Lipstick, Tea Rose

2. This is my personal favourite colour in lipsticks, one stroke gives you light shade you can use it according to boldness. It could go from light to dark in just a few seconds.

Nykaa Sugar Plum Martini 15 M

;)

3. This is the nude colour if you looking for some light colour which mixes with your lip colour what I like about this product the most is that it gives you sweet fragrance.

Lakme Mousse Lip

This is also what I bought and Thinking of buying it again. This is the face cream cum foundation.
This is

Pond's White Beauty BB+

you should give it a try.

This product is also very good and genuine one, which works as foundation but its a sunscreen.

Lotus Herbals Matte Look

 This is better for people of all skin type.

Let's explore some fun places

Hey,
There are some places in India which you might like when you visit them. I am sharing some of the pictures of Goa. There are some places which you should also visit to see the beauty of the ocean and nature. The sound you get to hear and the connection you feel when you cut your virtual links. One could feel the sound mind and body.
 
1. Candolim Beach.

This second pic is of place somewhere in North Goa.

3. Cabo de Rama.

4. Butterfly Beach.

5.Chapora fort.

6. Basilica of Bom Jesus

7. This is the pic of some cultural fest which was going on

7. Cruise. It's fun to see the dance forms of Goa while you are here.

Happy phase or face?

Walking over the sadness with a happy face, we can try that at least.
Perspective is the way of seeing things with different point of view. You could either imagine a sad place as happy one, by keeping a positive thought or you could imagine a place to be sad one by thinking of gloomy and painfull memories.

Love your body!

Hey guys,

     

          I wanted to write about the topic which is necessary for today's generation. The generation which is more involved in technology and less in activity so I decided to write this health related blog where I want to say that one can stay healthy if they want to. Forcing someone to do something, what they should be doing totally goes in vain.

One should make up their mind to stay healthy. In this intrinsic motivation is required than the extrinsic one. The first Motive should be because they want to live a happy and a healthy life. As we all have heard about the phrase that Health is wealth.

There are two possible reasons of not taking care of yourself is either you don't love yourself or you don't understand the reason behind it. I have been exercising for the last I don't know  how many years, it my habit now. If someday I skip or cheat the only thing that comes to mind repeatedly is that I skipped and I wait for the next day so that I can compensate.

Well, there are thousands of reasons to be fit one of them is to stay young for longer duration, this is what I have seen. You can compare the faces of one who works out and the other who doesn't.
You can easily make out not by looking at their faces. No offense, I am not saying they look bad but my point here is to keep a track on your body.

If you take care of your body then your body definitely will pay you back, the hard work you did earlier. You feel good about yourself, about your hard work and if you want to stay young for Longer than you better stay fit.

         It is never to late not to learn new things and to love yourself. If you can't love youself then what do you expect from others.
According to a President's Council on Sports, Fitness & Nutrition
(U.S. Department of Health & Human Services)

• Less than 5% of adults participate in 30 minutes of physical activity each day;2 only one in three adults receive the recommended amount of physical activity each week.

• Only 35 – 44% of adults 75 years or older are physically active, and 28-34% of adults ages 65-74 are physically active.

• More than 80% of adults do not meet the guidelines for both aerobic and muscle-strengthening activities, and more than 80% of adolescents do not do enough aerobic physical activity to meet the guidelines for youth.

Make your efforts count and stay healthy and from mind and body.

☮️

Glimpse

Hey people,


I didn't write anything in this month so chose this day -the last day of the year to get it done.
This year was full of surprises, happiness, sadness, adulthood and entered into the world of employment-stress of work etc etc.
This year has been great for me a few things which were supposed to happen, last or last to last year but happened this year in 2018.
    Your happiness could be related to somebody's happiness, that is what I have experienced.

Felt sad for people who passed away so early when they had started to do well in their life.
Which made me think life is unpredictable, it could change any time we should cherish every moment. If you make mistakes that should not stop you from proceeding further, learning from mistakes and moving forward is what life is all about.


I am still in the process of getting to the point where I can say "I have learned a lot now I can relax", that stage is far for now.
     Life keeps on going so are the experiences and learning. We must make ourselves ready to adapt the changes in any field. At first it's tough but then it becomes your warm up.
I want to do so well in life, when I die I could say that "I have done everything, now I can die peacefully". 🙏🏻

I want to write for myself too where I can feel motivated after reading it and could proceed further in life and never stop.🎖️

Little things.

Hello guys,

           I have understood so many things in these years that a person could also stay happy in small things too.
A child who lives on streets and is homeless, does not have  proper clothes to cover his body and is barefooted.
If he could smile even in difficult conditions then you  can at least try .
We have forgotten our childhood, how we used to avoid the problem and if we think about the problem we had, they were related to solve the game conflicts, about choosing teams.
A small child can solve problem with his little brain too and he does not take much stress, he says what he feels like, does what he wants to.
Open your palms and release all the stress.

We as humans waste our time thinking about things which can't be fixed instead leaving it alone and focusing on main things.
 We should invest our time in living happily and giving society back what it has given you.

Life is not always the same for every one it keeps on changing, we should go with the flow and should explore the beauty around us.

Life feels simple when you have the perspective which is positive. Let small things make you happy and big things happier.

Life is happy

Hello people,


                 Does the world feel sad when you are sad?!

It is very difficult for us to describe the life when we are sad. When we are happy there are some words which perfectly describe a situation. So, I can say that life has been tough for all of us precisely for me too.
I don't want to give it a credit because now I have so many good things happening in my life and I don't want to focus on the negative side, which really affected me and broke me in tears.

I have died like everyday waiting for that moment where I can say

                                 "I Live for this"

 life gives you so many worst experiences and lessons just to make you realise, how to be happy when gloomy days are over. Instead of blaming the person we should blame the situation.

      The most important thing that I have realised is to attain a peace of mind and not physical environment, that's the secondary thing because physical environment could be changed but to feel the change, we should be in the state of mind to understand what is happening and how it could be changed.


I want to thank every single person whom I've met and who stayed with me in the times of need. I will always remember the responses that I have got and will try to be there for the people who stood by me.

Even if you say "I understand you" means a lot to the person who is in need or even if you stay silent and just listen to them.
 This is just like a therapy where we share our inner or deepest thoughts which were bouncing inside your heads to pop out some day.

In the end I would like to say is to stay strong and be happy because ultimately you will get what you dreamt of it could be anything happiness, money, things but don't just kill your excitement for the person who does not deserve it. Live, keep shining, keep smiling because you are worth it.

#shinebright♥️💖 

Save yourself for someone special

Hey guys,
   
         This is very important for a person to know, their value in someone's life. We face different situations like
Sometimes we feel the person is not reciprocating the same way they should. Which directly or indirectly affects us in different terms.
Or
 If the other person is making extra efforts to make you or the situation positive, gives you positive Vibes.

What would you do in one of the situations as mentioned above it is quite obvious we will stick to the person who who makes extra efforts and gives us positive vibes.

        I believe in the philosophy- which says "Action speaks louder than words." People say thousand things daily and they don't do as they say. People should teach what they preach.

You should give yourself time to see what is going around you and should know how to analyze the situation. If the person is making genuine efforts just you have your attention, you should never let them go.
And if you are with the person who makes you feel extra & worthless it's time for you to see the truth and move on and wait for the best one to come. It is just like the quote syas "Price is what you pay and value is what you get." If you are not getting what you deserve you should look for someone else who appreciates your presence because there are thousands and billions of people on this planet and I totally believe you will find that someone special with those qualities.

You cannot expect these things from stupid people. Just save your time, effort, energy and your love for someone who deserve it.
Save yourself for someone special! ❤️

#savingmyselfforsomeonespecial❤️

Things to do

Hey people,
   
     
We have always dreamt of dying, at some point of our lives. You must have made a list of things in mind, what you would love to do before dying. This is what I think if this happens, that is what I would be doing, if thing happens I will react this way.

Things I want to do, before dying;
😂(P.S- I am not mentally stressed or depressed)

1. I want to travel the whole world. (So cliché, ikr)

2. I want to live in a tree house for months, also in       smallest house. That is what we used to do        when we were small

3. I would like to speak the brutal truth for a day, even if it hurts everybody around.

4. Would like to taste all the candies all around the world.

5. I would want to have a life where I just sit, eat, exercise and get paid for it.😂 (Suggest me, some kind of jobs)

6. Want to visit places and would like to skip going home afterwards.

7. Would like to call all my FRIENDS and party.

8. World tour with friends.

9. Want to be a Police woman for a day.

10. See the northern lights.

11. Ride a helicopter.

12. Scuba Dive the Great Barrier Reef.

13. Go on a road trip.

14. Raise a child.

15. Camping.

16. Sleep in a Castle.

17. Climb a Mountain.

18. Get Tattoos all over my body.

19. Ride a Roller Coaster.

20. Become a Millionaire.

21.  Fall in Love.

22. Learn to Skateboard.

23. Learn Sign Language.

24. Be a Judge for a day.

25. Fly like a bird and shit on people I hate the most.

26. Want to see myself from others perspective and make them think, I am the Best human on Earth that has ever existed.😂

P.S- keeping few things Private. 🤘🏻

#

You're worth it

Hello people,


          There are various situations in which people either slay by saying the good things or by staying quiet. There are numerous comes, it could be positive or negative. You never know, how the other person is articulating the meaning out of a situation.

Sometimes we regret saying something or we regret we didn't say anything. People react in anger, they say things that they shouldn't have said. When we don't utter a word, we become our critic.

We have different ways of finding fault in others or we can say, we all are clichéd, the way we do things, as if we were born to find faults. Life is little crazy. Let god decide, how to f*ck your life in his style.🤘🏻😂🤘🏻
 It all depends on the way, we take it as a lesson or one of the ways to be successful person.

Your work is to shine, without dimming others' light. Don't be that light that blinds!
Be your own motivator, inspire to aspire, pull people out of their miseries and put a smile on their faces. Climb on a ladder of success not on people's morals.

#peaceout!
#you'reworthit

Don't let them walk all over you!

 Hey people,

          This is for the  people who think they are the most Superior human ever existed, you are just too dumb to realize, how stupid you look when you open your mouth. You can just criticize every little thing around you but you forget to look at the mirror the one and only dumbest creature that has ever existed is you.

     You might not realise how you suppress the other person's existence. You are the most disgusting specie on this planet, even on the parallel universe you are still the most disgusting stupid ass Bicth!
You are just so coward that you only choose people, who prefer to stay silent than spilling out bull shit, like you do. You don't even know how bad you look even from outside, it takes courage to handle all the bullshit, especially when it comes out from your mouth instead of your ass! Your ass must be jealous.

       I hate this feeling that people choose to walk all over the feelings, genuine nature, simplicity and kindness. You must know how bad it feels when somebody looks down at you. If you can't handle flaws of a person, then stay thousand miles away from them.

The only thing you deserve in life is nothing!

I am not sorry for all the words because you deserve them all! "I'd Like To Apologize To Absolutely Nobody.🙏🏻

#SorryNotSorry

Reverse psychology

Hello people,


           You must have heard the sentence which is often used by the people, that is "don't cross the line". We as a human we just do the opposite, if we're asked not to do something and we just do it because we want to explore the situation or the consequences of it.



   Well, as an imaginative specie we can imagine things in a best way possible and we are curious about the product of the process. We're being taught about everything and anything ever existed but have you ever had a thought of not doing something?

If you're ''not to peek!"



We'll make sure we get the best vision to see, what we're asked not to watch. 😂 We call that human nature.

Let me give one more example;

When somebody is entering and you tap on your friend's shoulder and tell them that somebody say cute is coming towards us and you ask them "not to look at them directly" but what your friend do is totally opposite.

       In the heated argument some people say not to punch not to punch, what did you do? 😂 You did punch, right!

 Our brain can not imagine the words like "not", "don't", "can't". That is why people have started using the reverse psychology knowing the nature of humans, it is the best policy ever adopted!



Enjoy your day!

#peaceout

Uncertain things!

Hello people,

     Uncertainty, doubt, dubiety, skepticism, suspicion, mistrust mean lack of sureness about someone or something. uncertainty may range from a falling short of certainty to an almost complete lack of conviction or knowledge especially about an outcome or result. This is what Merriam-Webster says about uncertainty.
       
 There are things we should not worry about i.e., future, situations, conditions, your bank balance 😂 etc. These things are uncertain you can not define the exact amount of them like how good or bad it would be in the next moment. We should remember that we live only once (only god knows though!) we should not waste our time worrying about things we can not control, instead we should enjoy every moment of our lives, loving people around and giving the society that it deserves (only good things.😂)

As the picture says being Sad is a waste of time, instead of wasting our time thinking; what bad has happened to you. We should serve people in need and thank God for giving us the opportunity to face the bad phase and coming out of it smiling.



"A person can acquire knowledge by experiencing the worst situations and not by eating almonds."



Consider yourself fortunate enough for the things you have, some people don't even have the basic things. Donate a little, to the people in need.


People of Kerala are having a bad time of their lives and they need your help as they have lost their houses, the basic need of a human being.

Please! Donate some amount or any thing you can give.

You can log on to "Paytm" and donate some amount of money to the minister of Kerala!
Sharing the link -
https://paytm.com/helpinghand/kerala-cm-s-distress-relief-fund

Let people think

Hey people,


    Have you ever experienced a few moments where you feel that the person you are talking to has misunderstood you. Well, congratulations! you are alive. This is life where you say something, people get something else then they have the point of fighting.

This issue is quite common because people will always judge you, according to their mood and the situation. I have recently joined somewhere and I barely know anyone there so, I do don't talk much. A lady was wearing a dress and I asked her "you wear it like this? What about the other way?!" I am definitely sure she got offended. 🙈 I was actually curious, to know the other ways of wearing that dress.
It's like you can't control the situation because you can not control other's point of view and their way of thinking.

The only thing you can do is "leave it up to them!" 😂 Or ignore it because you can not invest your time explaining the other person; what you said, how you said it, why did you do something and so on.
You didn't take birth just to explain people around you and to prove that you are right.